Yes, another feminism rant.

I have read this article in the Daily Mail, and the comments on it, about the perils of feminism and how one woman regrets her career choices.

And I have read Jezebel’s counterargument, which I find well-constructed.

And after all this, I have only this to say: If feminists continue to prioritize, laud, or support traditionally male/masculine traits and goals, such as promiscuous sex, career goals, and hairy legs (if I may be so stereotypical) over traditionally female/feminine traits and goals, such as marriage, babies, and domestic duties, then we are trying to bring down the status quo with more of the status quo.

The problems of sexism won’t be solved by turning women into men. They won’t be solved by shaming women for daring to be stereotypically feminine. By stating that motherhood, babies, and career sacrifices are only for “bad feminists,” we are perpetuating the cycle. I’m a feminist–a pretty hardcore one–and I love to bake. Love to iron. And love to cook for my boyfriend. I’m also totally devoted to my career. Paradox? Not really.

Feminism doesn’t mean trashing all the old choices and only choosing our new options. It means that we are all free to make our choices from a buffet that is now twice as big. I, for one, am grateful.